Questions of Jealousy.

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You are 'with' someone. This basically means you and he/she are together-ish.

Now:
You tell your very good friend that you are a jealous person and in the past year you have been doing a good job at curbing your jealousy. You don't make a big deal when your good friend hangs out with your togetherish type thing. But one day you just overflow. You kinda go crazy just a little bit. A little yelling and a little anger/rudeness... Well you basically say to your good friend that you are a pretty jealous person and that you mind them hanging out so much with your togetherish type person alone. Well your good friend assures you that they never meant to make you jealous and that they have never done nor will ever do anything that would hurt you in that respect. They understood the jealousy (so they said).

Then:
You find out that your good friend and your togetherish type person were playfighting. Choke holds, punches, grapling-the whole nine. They took a cigarette break and then started round two. You weren't there... Your togetherish type person tells you this all non-chalant like.

QUESTIONS:
Do you think that your good friend is in the wrong?
Should your good friend have understood from the blow out before that the jealousy would obviously include physical contact?
Am I completely alone in the idea that if someone tells you that they are jealous of you hanging out with your friends togetherish type person that physical contact is just fucking wrong?!?
Would you playfight with your good friends togetherish type person if they told you that they were jealous individuals and that they were getting jealous of you even being around them alone?

Any thoughts would be appreciated because I think I'm out of sane and I can't seem to get back.