connor-obain.livejournal.comIts Japanese, it means “one life; one meeting”. I have it tattooed on my back, just below my neck. Of late I have forgotten why I got it. In its original context it was in reference to samurai, where the next meeting with another samurai could be the last time you meet them, either by You killing him, him killing you or if there wasn’t a duel between the two of you, a duel some where down the road could result in you never meeting again.
I did a lot of martial arts as a child, so I still carry a lot of the teachings with me, even though I haven’t practiced in many years. I try to apply them to modern day contexts, as I did with my tattoo.
I got it to remind me that even though duels to the death don’t happen in today’s society, the people I meet, the friends I make, can disappear from your life just as easily, be it by death or travel or just circumstance. I applied it to modern life by way of thinking each time I meet someone, old or new, it could be the last so I should always make the most of it and enjoy their company and do my best to ensure they enjoyed my company. I could get hit by a bus, they could be moving away, who know the countless reasons for never seeing some one again.
But of late I had forgotten this, these words I have lived by.
Its time to remember why I got the tattooed in the first place.
Im feeling very reflective these days